A spicy menage a trois:
(The shocking love triangle between Lord Mountbatten, his wife and the founder of
modern India.)
'At the stroke of the midnight hour when
the world sleeps, India will awake to life and freedom.'
Those
powerful words, memorable to everyone who loves India, were uttered by
the father of the modern nation, Jawaharlal Nehru, when the country
became independent more than 60 years ago. Behind this famous 'tryst
with destiny' speech lay a deeply personal fight to escape the
domination of the British Raj, a struggle all the more meaningful
because of Nehru's private life. For the handsome widower had formed a
more than usually deep bond with, of all people, the beautiful wife of
the chief representative of the occupying power, Edwina, Lady
Mountbatten.
If
you came across their romance in a novel, you would dismiss it
instantly as fiction. But the fact is the couple shared an extraordinary
love. Their deep attachment lasted from the moment they met in 1947 in
New Delhi until the day Edwina died 13 years later. It was such a
meaningful relationship that even Lord Mountbatten himself found it best
to turn a blind eye. Perhaps he even encouraged it, so that he could
benefit from any insight into the Indian mind that his wife could pass
him at this pivotal time in their history.
This fascinating personal intrigue was to have been the basis of a new film, Indian Summer,
starring Hugh Grant and Cate Blanchett as Lord and
Lady Mountbatten. As for the handsome Nehru, rumour has it he was to be
played by Irrfan Khan, star of the hugely successful Slumdog
Millionaire. But so concerned are the Indian government to protect their
favourite statesman's reputation that, after nine months of costly
pre-production in Delhi, filming has been dramatically ordered to cease.
Indian politicians have demanded to see the script to know just how
explicitly the relationship will be portrayed.
Hitherto,
those who know the truth about the relationship between Nehru and Lady
Mountbatten (including Mountbatten's two daughters) have always insisted
the couple never consummated their great love, and that it was more
spiritual than physical.
But
what is the real story? Certainly, there are aspects of Lady
Mountbatten's early life that will shock India's ruling elite, who even
today do not allow their Bollywood stars to kiss on screen. The spoiled
favourite granddaughter of a Jewish financier close to the royals,
Edwina Ashley was the richest and most glamorous deb of her time. In
1922, she married the handsome, though impoverished, 21-year- old Lord
Louis Mountbatten. Known in the family as 'Dickie', he is nowadays best
remembered as Prince Charles's great-uncle and mentor, tragically killed
by an IRA bomb in 1979. Ostensibly it was the perfect match, but the
sexually inexperienced couple had little in common.
After
a fumbling honeymoon, some of it spent in Hollywood, Mountbatten
resumed his career as a naval officer. Meanwhile, the stylish Edwina,
described as one of the six best- dressed women in the world, shopped at
Chanel, played bridge, and danced the Charleston until 3am, sometimes
with Fred Astaire. At weekends, their country home was full of guests
(including the Prince of Wales) arriving in fast cars and even
aeroplanes.
Vain,
charming and boyish, Dickie was devoted to Edwina, but still awkward in
bed. He famously named her breasts Mutt and Jeff - the nicknames that
World War I soldiers gave their campaign medals.
To
him, sex was unromantic, 'a mixture of psychology and hydraulics'.
There were also mutterings that he preferred men. Things went downhill
after their daughter Patricia was born in 1924.
While
Mountbatten doted on the new arrival, the passionate Edwina was
pathologically jealous of her own child being the centre of attention.
'A divine little daughter. Too thrilling, too sweet,' she trilled to her
diary - but then packed the baby off to nannies on the South Coast. The
highly sexed Edwina then proceeded to look for lovers from all walks of
life.
Her
first was the aristocratic Lord Molyneux. He was followed by a rich,
polo-playing American, Laddie Sandford, and then by Mike Wardell, the
good-looking manager of a London evening newspaper. At times, she
juggled all three at once. 'Lord Molyneux is in the morning-room and Mr
Sandford in the library, but where should I put the other gentleman?'
asked a desperate flunkey when they happened to visit together.
While
her husband was posted to Malta in the early Thirties, she turned to
American golf champion Bobby Sweeny. Next came
playboy Larry Gray, before she went on a Mexican cruise and jumped into
bed with the elder of two Californian brothers, Ted Phillips, quickly
followed by his sibling Bunny. This serial sexual gallivanting went on
until the birth of her second daughter Pamela in 1929.
By
now, Mountbatten, too, was seeking other women. In 1931, he was
flirting with the 18-year-old future Duchess of Argyll and even kept her
photo in his cabin. 'The only photo of any girl!' he wrote to her.
Later, there was Barbara Cartland and the Frenchwoman Yola Letellier, on
whom Colette based her novel Gigi. Edwina was fiercely jealous, but she
didn't think to change her own habits.
Throughout
the Thirties, she had dozens of admirers, known in the private slang of
the Mountbatten circle as 'ginks'. As Mountbatten himself once put it:
'Edwina and I spent all our married lives getting into other people's
beds.' She even dallied with conductor Malcolm Sargent, and then
embarked on her most adventurous affair to date, with the bisexual West
Indian cabaret pianist Leslie Hutchinson. Although Edwina successfully
sued a newspaper for saying she had a black lover, there is not much
doubt she conducted an on-off relationship with 'Hutch' for 30 years.
She famously gave him a gold bracelet bearing her name, a gold cigarette
case and, conclusively perhaps, a jewelled penis sheath from Cartier.
This
sexual track record seems like an unlikely apprenticeship for a woman
to become the great love of the socialist founder of modern India.
But
Edwina, the social butterfly, also had a strong streak of idealism.
Never one for empty titles, she seems to have climbed in and out of bed
looking for a cause.
With
the onset of World War II, her tireless work in the bombed- out East
End was followed by a spell in South-East Asia repatriating British
refugees from prison camps and
hospitals. Not for nothing did the blood of her
great-great-grandfather, the distinguished 19th-century reformer Lord
Shaftesbury, run in her veins.
Mountbatten's
war service culminated, of course, in the recapture of Burma from the
Japanese. Indeed, both had such a successful war that in 1947 they were
posted by the new Labour Prime Minister Clement Attlee to Delhi, as the
last Viceroy and Vicereine of India to facilitate the smooth transition
of power to Nehru, the country's nationalist leader.
While
the young Edwina had been playing the
field, the patrician Nehru had been working hard for his country. Born
in 1889, son of a leading lawyer, he came from a rich and influential
family with distinctly Anglicised tastes in clothes and culture. The
boys were educated in England and the girls had English governesses who
gave the children English names. Jawaharlal became 'Joe', his sisters
'Nan' and 'Betty'. After Harrow and Cambridge, Jawaharlal was called to
the Bar in London, but he soon returned to India.
In
1916, he had married the high-born Kamala, riding to his
Maharajah-style wedding in Delhi on a white horse. But he had already
come under the spell of the charismatic Gandhi, at the time a failed
lawyer who, having been shabbily treated in British-owned South Africa,
returned to
his own country fired up against social injustice and determined to
free it from foreign domination. Nehru sympathised with Gandhi's
non-violent philosophy. At home, meanwhile, his frail wife started her
own radical crusade to improve women's rights.
Interestingly,
the Nehru marriage somewhat mirrored that of the Mountbattens. In her
30s Kamala developed into an irresistibly attractive woman who was
always surrounded by infatuated young men, including Feroze Gandhi (no
relation to the Mahatma), the future husband of her daughter, Indira,
who would of course later became the country's fiery leader. Many people
are convinced Kamala and Feroze conducted a long and satisfying affair.
However, Kamala died at a young age of tuberculosis in 1936. And though
Nehru had also had affairs, he never remarried. His only love now was
his country - until he met Edwina Mountbatten.
It
wasn't Edwina's first visit to India - she had engineered an invitation
to the Viceregal Lodge before her marriage in hot pursuit of
Mountbatten, who was also staying there.
Neither
was it the first time she had met Nehru. She and Dickie had warmed to
the man, whose aquiline features resembled Mountbatten's own, in
Singapore in 1946. Now, with Nehru's mission to liberate his country at a
time when war-weary Britain was desperate to get rid of it, the
47-year-old Edwina finally had a focus for her huge energy and political
radicalism. Of course, British withdrawal did not go as smoothly as
everyone hoped. Mass
migration and massacres followed as Indians fought for territory with
the new Pakistan. In this sensitive climate, Edwina put herself at great
personal risk as she and Nehru tried to stop the looting and mob
violence. Working alongside him in hospitals and refugee camps, she was
fearless. At one Muslim refugee camp, she found a gang of Hindus and
Sikhs trying to set it on fire and kill the inmates. Edwina stood in
front of the crowd as calmly as though she were at a garden party,
threatening to have her guards shoot the agitators. Improbably they
backed off in the face of her natural authority.
After
independence, the Indophile Mountbattens made many visits to the
country, and Edwina spent more and more time with the new prime minister
Nehru. This
is the point at which her younger daughter Pamela, the biographer in
the family, acknowledges that love blossomed between the lonely Nehru
and the Vicereine. What's more, says Pamela, her father condoned the
friendship, even going so far as to call it a 'happy threesome'.
'My
mother had already had lovers. My father was inured to it. It broke his
heart the first time, but it was somehow different with Nehru,' she has
written.
As Mountbatten himself wrote to her sister Patricia at the time: 'She and Jawaharlal (Nehru) are so sweet together,
they really dote on each other.'
Undignifed
as it seems against the backdrop of the huge historic events in which
they were caught up, there are those who suspect that Nehru, like both
Mountbattens, had bisexual tendencies, and that Dickie, in a last
attempt to establish physical intimacy with his unresponsive wife, may
have joined them in a physicalmenage a trois.
Whatever
went on in the bedroom, the Mountbattens joined Nehru in a very public
romance with India. This, though, didn't go down well back in Britain,
where disapproval came
to a head after Gandhi was assassinated in 1948. Seeing a newspaper
photo of the grieving Viceregal couple squatting on the ground at
Gandhi's cremation, Churchill angrily concluded that they had gone
native, disgracing themselves as royal representatives. When they
returned home, the old war hero refused to shake Mountbatten's hand. The
unconventional Lady Mountbatten, however, rose above all this. She
visited Nehru every year and he (her soulmate) visited her in England,
where his sister became High Commissioner.
When
parted, they wrote to each other constantly - and Edwina made no
attempt to keep the letters secret from her husband. As she wrote to
Dickie in 1952: 'Some of them have no "personal" remarks at all. Others
are love letters... though
you yourself well realise the strange relationship - most of it
spiritual - which exists between us.'
When
the correspondence is eventually published in its entirety, perhaps we
may know the whole truth. Meanwhile, one of Nehru's own last letters,
written ten years after their first meeting, sheds a little more light.
'Suddenly I realised (and perhaps you also did) that there was a deeper
attachment between us, that some uncontrollable force, of which I was
dimly aware, drew us to one another. 'I was overwhelmed and at the same
time exhilarated by this new discovery. We talked more intimately as if
some veil had been removed and we could look into each other's eyes
without fear or embarrassment.' Intense words, yet Nehru was now 68, his
romantic
friend ten years younger.
No
longer in the first flush of youth, perhaps there was no great urgency
to climb into bed. Little did they realise how little time was left. A
year later, in 1960, 58-year- old Edwina, by now leading a selfless
life, died alone in her sleep while on a trip to Borneo on behalf of St
John Ambulance Brigade. Beside her bed was her collection of Nehru's
letters. And the love affair was not over yet. As her body was taken by
the Royal Navy to its sea burial off Britain's south coast, Prime
Minister Nehru made his last and most public declaration of his
devotion, sending his own Indian Navy frigate to cast a wreath into the
waters on his behalf.
Such
a dramatic farewell would make a stirring finale to any film. But as
the director Joe Wright, who was behind the scheduled movie says, it
will be a long time before it gets made, thanks to the explosive mixture
of politics and forbidden love.